Military OneSource offers military spouses free and confidential support to help them build resilience and overcome challenges. Though absence may make the heart grow fonder, it can also add stress to a marriage. These tips can help you cope. As a military spouse whose career is interrupted, consider these job-seeking suggestions. You may be living with foster parents or in a group home, but you have the right to expect to be treated as well as if you lived with your own family. Foster children of all ages have rights.